My daughter’s teacher went on maternity leave this week and I made her a little ribbon lovey before she went. I wanted to make sure we gave her a gift now because I’m an out of sight, out of mind person. If I didn’t do it while I was still seeing her every day I feared it would never get done.
There was a minor hitch in that plan though. The teacher didn’t find out the sex of her baby so the gift had to be appropriate for a boy or a girl. Now anyone who has taken a look at children’s clothes recently will know that most things seem to be manufactured with a gender in mind.
In the 70s when I was little, it was perfectly normal for baby clothes to be quite unisex. There was a lot of red, yellow, orange, green, and brown and mass produced clothes didn’t have the modern proliferation of bows, butterflies, flowers, trucks, aliens, and dinosaurs that mark them out as boy or girl.
On the weekend I looked through my stash and to my dismay, most of the fabrics are really gender specific. When I stopped by the fabric store early in the week it was really obvious. The only gender neutral colour was yellow, and even then, it usually had a picture that favoured one sex. Even the stripes and polka dots have a dominant color that feels gender specific.
Luckily I was privy to a little information about the recipient. Her favorite color is green! So I took a remnant of blue polka dot fleece and some green and backed it with a green and blue striped flannel. The best part is that my daughter really got into this and helped me pick all the ribbons. We ended up with a lot of purple and burgundy which kind of neutralized all that blue a bit.
I decided to experiment a bit on this one, so I added a stuffed cloud detail. This was the tricky bit though. I didn’t do a very good job sewing it on, so I embroidered around the edge. I’ve never done that before and for some inexplicable reason I decided to just wing it instead of going online and finding out how it’s actually supposed to be done. Much frustration ensued, but I think it turned out all right in the end.


